Khamis
Pride
Many women object to my comments concerning their sexual prowess. They feel that their existing skills are adequate. How is this so? Their men are seeking out prostitutes.
Denial Is Giving
Denying your husband penetrative sex will not lead him astray. Quite the opposite. Make him beg for it.
Sharp Tongue
A sharp tongue is a red flag of growing frustration in a passionless marriage, Schwartz adds. "If you're bitchy, if you treat each other with contempt, it's a warning sign. It may not happen all the time, but it happens often. It's because people start to feel neglected, disappointed. They had expectations of what marriage should be like, and this is not what they'd hoped for."
Rabu
Zina
From the perspective of Qur’an, prophetic traditions, and law, sex outside of a legally binding tie is considered zina, and is punishable for both women and men. Though there is a double standard in that men are, under certain circumstances, permitted to have several lawful sexual partners while women must always remain monogamous, when it comes to punishment for illicit intercourse men and women are treated exactly alike. In this sense, the traditional framework for dealing with illicit sexual behavior is balanced—unlike in the case of honor killings for actual or suspected sexual misconduct, in which only women are targets.
Recreational sitting
Sitting on your husband's face need not lead to penetrative sex. Just sit, and ignore him. He will be highly excited and you can just watch TV.
Violence Against Women
Intimate violence against women is a worldwide crisis. From “crimes of passion” to “dowry deaths,” not to mention domestic violence, many types of aggression against women occur at the hands of family members. The so-called “honor killing” of women and girls in some Muslim nations is one horrifying manifestation of this global phenomenon.
Strip Your Husband Of His Power
Removing your husband's ego is crucial. Making him feel powerless will excite him totally. Tie his hands behind his back using old pantyhose. Tie his ankles together. Tie his neck to your ankle or to your chair or table.
Marital Doldrums
Signs you're in the marital doldrums: "You're leading parallel lives, and don't see each other anymore," she tells WebMD. "You tell everything important to your friends but not to each other. Those are really big problems, and you've got to tend to them."
Selasa
Bare Legs Are For Farm Workers
If you are the wife of a Muslim man, do not make him feel as though he married a peasant.
Women In Charge
Actually, in a polygamous marriage it’s more of a burden to a man than to a woman because the husband has to face four different women, and that’s not easy
Sex Therapy
All of the work you do in the therapy room is based on talking, however, you are also given homework to do with your partner in the privacy of your own home. Clients are amazed at the progress they make and how well they get on with their therapist, once they are over the initial nervousness at talking frankly about their sex life.
Grace
The love between man and woman (husband and wife) is the grace of Allah. This forms the fundamental base of alliance between couples of the same species. Love and compassion provides the cohesive force of this union.
Isnin
Sex Problems
For some women these problems are fairly clear, including past sexual or other abuse, rape, or traumatic sexual encounters.
Ahad
Unclear Sexual Problems
For others, the problems may be less clear-cut, involving unresolved emotional issues or dissatisfaction with other areas of life.
Sabtu
The More The Merrier
If you do not have sister wives, you probably have friends. A husband who is sexually dominated by several women is a man living a dream. He will never stray. He will think of you always and run home to you after work.
Old Attitudes
The goal is to get rid of old attitudes that got in the way of enjoyable sex, establishing new attitudes that increase sexual responsiveness.
Jumaat
Remove His Clothing
Confine your husband to the bedroom and remove all of his clothing. This will drive him wild with excitement. Make him feel like a prisoner of his own lust.
Couples Therapy
The couples therapist is trained and experienced at helping couples recognize, understand, and solve their problems. First, the counselor explores the relationship to find the trouble spots. The counselor will recommend exercises and activities that will improve the couple's communication and trust. If that can be accomplished, often the sexual problem can be solved more easily
Khamis
Female Domination?
Femdom may sound wrong but is the answer to our marital plight. Offer your husband a daily sexual experience that money cannot buy. From the moment he wakes up you can ensure that his passions are constructively channelled into your marriage.
Sex Issues
A sex therapist may take couples therapy one step further by focusing on the couple's physical relationship. After identifying the couple's attitudes about sex and the sexual problem, the sex therapist recommends specific exercises to re-focus the couple's attention and expectations. Specific objectives may include any of the following:
Learning to relax and eliminate distractions. Learning to communicate in a positive way what you would like. Learning nonsexual touching techniques. Increasing or enhancing sexual stimulation. Minimizing pain during intercourse.
Learning to relax and eliminate distractions. Learning to communicate in a positive way what you would like. Learning nonsexual touching techniques. Increasing or enhancing sexual stimulation. Minimizing pain during intercourse.
Rabu
Eroticize Your Marriage
If all your husband can think about is sex with you, he will not stray. The key to this is to make your sex life way more exciting than what a prostitute could offer.
Sensate Focus
Sex therapists often use what are called "sensate focus" exercises to treat sexual problems. The exercises start with nonsexual touching and encourage both partners to express how they like to be touched. The goal is to help both partners understand how to recognize and communicate their preferences.
Selasa
Treat Your Man Well
When four women enter a room dressed only in pantyhose and high heels, husband must please everyone. This is a daily treat for the husband. He is buried beneath a pile of legs.
Vaginismus
One successful technique is the use of Kegel exercises. Many women are familiar with these from their childbirth education classes. Kegel exercises involve voluntary contraction and relaxation of the muscles around the opening of the vagina. Women do this instinctively when they need to urinate at an inconvenient time.
Sexual Consultation
Areas of consultation include: Problems with sexual desire and intimacy, premature ejaculation, lack of sexual arousal, intercourse difficulties, orgasm difficulties, impotence or erectile dysfunction, unusual sexual habits, behaviors & interests, couple sexual compatibility tests, sexual attitude and interest tests, erectile and sexual dysfunction tests.
Isnin
Traditional Law
Some have suggested that the best means of combating honor killings is to insist on a strict application of traditional law, under which only the public authority is empowered to punish illicit sexual intercourse, and then only with incontrovertible proof of wrongdoing. The evidentiary requirements for conviction in cases of zina (four eyewitnesses to the actual act of penetration or confession by the offenders) ensure that punishment will virtually never be carried out. By claiming the Islamic “high ground,” such a move could be influential in shaping Muslim ideas about honor and punishment. The danger of this approach, though, is that by enshrining traditional texts as literally applicable to the contemporary world, one leaves unchallenged those elements of traditional sexual ethics that create a climate of hyper-attention to women’s bodies and behavior. So-called honor killings are indeed one extreme outgrowth of this climate. A Muslim feminist sexual ethics must help create the conditions for the Qur’anic and traditional values of modesty and chastity to be lived by Muslim women and men in ways that are faithfully chosen and equitably maintained.
Polygamy Entails Routine
A husband is filled with passion. He must be given outlet for his needs up to five times a day. Wives must work together to cater for him day or night.
Vaginal Spasms
Some women have been helped by using dilators to relax the vaginal spasms. A small dilator is placed in the vagina for 10 minutes, then removed. Larger dilators are used over time to train the vaginal muscles. Kegel exercises may improve the chance of success with this technique.
Ahad
Polygamy Means Cooperation
Polygamous wives must work together. The man must be serviced throughout the day. Like bovine he needs milking.
Group Work
Group therapy or a support group may be very helpful for a woman. There she can discuss her problems with others who share them. Women often gain insight and practical solutions from these groups, as well as a greater confidence from knowing she is not alone. Couples groups also can be very helpful if both partners are willing. A sex therapist usually recommend such a group if he or she thinks it would be helpful.
Sabtu
Treatment
It is not within your power to be perfectly equitable in your treatment with all your wives, even if you wish to be so; therefore, [in order to satisfy the dictates of Divine Law] do not lean towards one wife so as to leave the other in a state of suspense.
Polygamy Is Not Sexist
People think that polygamy is bad for women. How is this so? The husband must serve all our needs, every day. This can mean four to five sexual encounters a day, and more if we desire it.
Erectile Dysfunction
Schedule enough time with your doctor to conduct a full interview and physical examination. The first step in the medical management of erectile dysfunction is taking a thorough sexual, medical, and psychosocial history. Erectile dysfunction is a delicate topic, and your doctor should be sensitive and caring to make you comfortable about sharing these intimate details of your private life.
Jumaat
Polygamy Means More Women To Serve
A polygamous marriage is great for the woman. The man is a toy, forced to serve many women.
Psychotherapy
If the problem is one of lack of knowledge, your health care provider or a sex therapist can teach you (and your partner) about the sexual response cycle and the elements of sexual stimulation. Armed with this new knowledge, many couples can go forward on their own.
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